All these are just merely arguments against office romance which to me they don't hold much water. Mood changes when spouse fight for sure, but the same way a man that just quarrels with his wife at home before going to work will feel is the same with the one that quarrels with his wife that works in the same place with him. The two will be both disattracted for sure. So it is the function of discipline.
That is why i think it is even better for such employees to keep their affairs out of the work place environment as they cannot combine work with their relationship issues and still perform up to expectations. It would definitely affect their ability to stay focused in the work place, this then affects the productivity of the organization as a whole.
Laughs, that's your own take. Seeing someone i have feelings for my will slow down my input for the company i work for. And again I'm a shy and jealous person just as you've seen towards the message i type. That's why i decided to play low now around romance to focus on meeting target then in the future i can talk about it in a separate side not in my business workplace, Lol.
Lol, you have said your mind. You are truly jealous. And to be candid, office romance won't work for you. Imagine a colleague looking lustfuly at your wife or even complementing her in a flirty manner. I know the look on your gave will be petulant. Aside this, office romance to me is cool. I love seeing my girl all around me, she motivates more than she disattracts me.
Laughs, i got your points clear you have bubbled with my mind just as you said. If our spouse is working in the same field with us that will lead to distraction cos of others the tension not to see competition around him or her, Lol. Since I'm a jealous person, i can not keep such kind of relationship in my workplace.
I like this angle you are looking at the matter. But let me burst your bubble. If one can not handle office romance successfully on the ground that it will cause disattraction, it means the person can't work effectively. Someone that can be distracted seeing his or her spouse at his or her workplace can easily be disattracted too if the thought of his or spouse crosses his or mind. Do you get my point?
I took my time to study the cases of office romance and I discover that most are into it as a result of the nature of their work. A banker spends virtually every minutes of his days in his work place which makes it difficult to meet people he can woo. So you won't be too quick judging bankers that fell in love with each other on bank. I may however condemn public display of affection at work.
I will never support office romance, even between married couples working in the same place. It shouldn’t be condoned, there’s a place for everything and it should remain so. Take your romance elsewhere and not the office. The office is a serious place for work and all hands must be on deck
I think office romance is very dangerous...
How will you advice people that work in banking sector, for instance, to do without it? It may be practically impossible for them because there is no time for them to be hanging out with strangers other than their colleagues at work. The time schedule they have won't allow this. I am not in support of it but situation warrants it more than intention.
