HOW DOES PARENTING AFFECTS THE CAREER OF CHILDREN

blessingc

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Parenting is when you give guidance to the younger generation, setting up a standard for the children and giving them a training to live a good moral life. Parenting in this 21st century is very challenging due to the technology and new lifestyle in this generay.


It is not right to give children all they want they need. If you are morally decent you will be able to train your children right and they will also live by your example. In parenting, not only the parents have the responsibility to train the children, the Church and the society has a hand in it also.

When a child is raised improperly, they become a problem to the society and end up becoming nuisance. They end up doing jobs out of their immoral life style. They could end up going into prostitution even in an advance from, not a street type, they could end up going into robbery, end up doing cyber fraud, all of these to earn a living.

The relationship between parents and children these days are strained parents don't have time for their children these days. Make your children your friends, teach them to be transparent, so that anything going on wrong in their life can be corrected at the right time. Make children know the reason they should not do the wrong thing. Teach them from when they are little to dress properly and avoid living immorally.


A well disciplined child becomes a prominent person in the society, they go for responsible careers, legal jobs to earn a living from.
 

saoussen5765

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In most of cases parents are choosing your career with you for many reasons so, for example, they want you to work in their place when you are more adult or sometimes friends or family recommendation.
 

Jasz

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Career and children are often seen as conflicting interests, but parents have found that they can be complementary pursuits. It is easier to balance work and family if parents pay attention to the time they spend on each task and avoid overcommitting.
Parents can maintain a healthy professional identity by taking advantage of the resources available to them, like career coaches and childcare. Parents can also preserve their professional relationships by maintaining communication with colleagues and not letting their children become an excuse for not meeting deadlines or missing appointments.

I would advise any parent just as I advise myself, children and gift from God and he can help us train them, however we should know what we are going into before giving birth, if you know you will have the resources and time for two kids, give birth to two and not three, if it,'s one, there is no shame in that. Don't come and cause problem for yourself, and the nation as a whole. The world is in distress already, don't add more. As children that lack adequate care end up disturbing the society and then country at the end, even the parents might not have peace of mind.
 
There are countless studies that show the positive and negative effects of parenting on a child’s future career. The most important aspect of parenting that contributes to a child’s success is the level of involvement the parents have in their lives.

Studies have shown that children who have parents who are involved in their lives are more likely to attend college and have successful careers. On the other hand, children who do not have parents who are involved in their lives are more likely to drop out of high school, get arrested, or become teenage parents.

The roles of parents in the society are very important. They are not only responsible for bringing up their children but they also have a great impact on the career of their children.

There are different types of parenting styles which can be adopted by the parents. The authoritarian parenting style is one which is very demanding and the children are expected to obey the parents without any questioning. The authoritative parenting style is one which is demanding but also allows for some level of discussion and negotiation between the parents and children.

the way in which a child is brought up would always reflect in his/her character. Parents should endeavor to train them in a God fearing and respectful manner in order to Mame the society much of a better place.
 

sincerem

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Your points are well stated, when a child is disciplined and well trained, it becomes useful indeed to the society. When the child acts irresponsible it becomes a nuisance to the security, which is a major problem. The reason why corruption in the society keeps climbing up in a modern day world is due to lack of parental care to the children during their early stages of life. When parents fail to give their children, the needed training, that child adopts a new behavior which is attributed to friends influence. That's why it is advised for parents to restrict their children to some kind of peers, because they are can be misleading indeed. Most rich people always try as much as they can, to restrict their children from public lifestyle, due to how some peers might act when it comes to influencing the lifestyle of their wards. And if you check, most people who are causing the trouble to the public comes down to being the poor peoples children, because they're just exposed to public lifestyle, and they do things which is considered social vices, in order to get money, and service their needs, when their patents neglect to coat them with best parental care.
 

Lens1000

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In most cases the parenting affect the career of a child. This is because a child must be well trained in order to achieve good things in life. A child that is not well nortured would possibly not attain a greater height in life. This is basically the essence of parenting and most of the parents of today do not know the essence of parenting. You should know the reason why your parents and that is why you must get yourself the needed knowledge on how to nurture your children. I listened to a program on the radio and it was very educative. The program was all about the parenting and what is needed to parent a child in a good way. The man anchoring the program made it known that in the estate where he resides, all the parents normally undergo training on parenting on a monthly basis. This set of parents are informed on the trends that is in vogue in the society because they learn. It is very good for parents to learn so that they can transfer those learning to the children to make them a better person in life. It is a pity that many parents failed in this regard.
 
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Bookwormlux

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There are different ways in which parenting gets to affect the careers and the future of children because most of parents out there are always trying to make sure that they are the ones who determine whatever it is that their children will become in the future .

Some parents try to make sure that their children study medical courses in the university and this is due to the fact that these courses were hot cakes during their time, and they have to still maintain his mentality and make sure that they secure the best future for their children .

Most of the time, I do not really blame parents who gets to behave like this because some children do not really have choices on their own and will always want to follow what their friends are doing.

There are also negative aspects of this behaviours that parents are doing .

The most commonly is due to the fact that most of these children will end up studying these courses, but would not give in their best because they have come to realise that it is not what they have passion for but they are only been for so study these courses .

Parents have to stop forcing their children on what to do.
 

Mika

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I think some people are born a devil. Society or parenting has nothing to do with the temperament and behavior of these people, as they are born that way. If you have read about Hitler, you will understand what I mean. However, in most cases, parenting and the environment (society) will be responsible for a person to be the way he or she is. For example, if you are raised in a family that tells you Muslims are terrorists, if the society you live in constantly reminds you that Muslim people are bad people, you will grow to believe that Muslims are terrorists, Muslims are bad people. Well, some terrorists are Muslims, and some of the terrorist attacks are carried out by Muslim terrorist organizations but this does not mean all Muslims are bad people, but you would continue to believe that Muslims are terrorists because you are raised in that way. Therefore, parenting has a lot of things to do when it comes to raising a good man or woman. A lot of people even choose a career based on their parents career, therefore, it is very common to see a doctor's child also a doctor, and an engineer's child also an engineer.
 

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