SIGNS YOU HAVE FOUND A GOOD MAN
1) HE LOVES GOD
A GOOD MAN is first of all a GOD MAN.
Everything he does, how he treats you are motivated by his love for God. He treats you right because he loves and fears God.
He seeks to draw you close to the THRONE ROOM of God daily, and not to his BEDROOM.
He is concerned about spiritual growth, and engages you on a spiritual journey of growth and intimacy with the Father, your relationship with him bears semblance to the three fold cord that can not be broken because he always brings God into it.
2) HE IS HONEST.
He is honest about his feelings for you, he is honest about his intentions, what he wants from you, he is honest about when he sees/wants the relationship to end in marriage. He tells you everything
He is honest to you about his finances, his career, his life, his family etc.
He is trust worthy, transparent in all his dealings, he never lies just to impress because it is not his nature.
He has Integrity you can see, he doesn't make promises he cannot keep, he keeps 90% of his promises.
3) HE RESPECTS YOU
He doesn't treat you with contempt or disregard, the way he talks to you, with so much care and love, like a friend, not a boss.
He treats you like a princess, respects your wishes, your privacy and personal space, he doesn't cross certain boundaries because he respects you and your body.
He doesn't flirt with ladies or cheat on you because he respects you, your feelings and the relationship.
He extends the respect he has for you to your friends, guardians and family, the way he talks about them and talks to them is respectful.
4) HE MAKES EFFORT
He makes effort to keep any Promises he makes to you, if he tells you he will at a place by 6pm, he makes effort to be there
He makes efforts to please you, he's always doing things just to make you happy, even if he is inconvenienced in the process, like staying up all night to talk to you when you want his attention.
He makes effort to stay in touch with you, no matter how busy his schedule, no matter how busy he is, he'll make out time to stay in touch, call you, visit you, hang out with you regularly.
He makes effort, changes his routines, his lifestyle, his habits, his dressing, just to make you happy.
5) HE LISTENS
He asks for your opinions, because he treasures them, because he has great regard for not just your body, but you mind.
He consults you before he takes decisions, and considers what you say and seeks to implement them.
He takes corrections from you happily and with humility and adjusts accordingly.
6) HE TREATS YOU WITH LOVE
He loves you, and you see it in his eyes, you hear it in his words, and you feel it from his actions.
He texts, calls, visits, holds you lovingly, buys you gifts for no reason, and plans for the future with you. He doesn't use you to joke because you mean the world to him.
7) HE SUPPORTS YOU
He supports you in anything you wish to do, he is your number one fan and cheerleader, he supports your everyday hustle, your dreams and passions, financially and otherwise.
He supports you in your business with ideas, encouragement, prayers, he is always there for you when you need him, he's a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear when you Wan to rant, and a friend to you.
8) He's after your soul, not your body.
He wants to marry you, has said so and is willing to wait till marriage for sex.
1) HE LOVES GOD
A GOOD MAN is first of all a GOD MAN.
Everything he does, how he treats you are motivated by his love for God. He treats you right because he loves and fears God.
He seeks to draw you close to the THRONE ROOM of God daily, and not to his BEDROOM.
He is concerned about spiritual growth, and engages you on a spiritual journey of growth and intimacy with the Father, your relationship with him bears semblance to the three fold cord that can not be broken because he always brings God into it.
2) HE IS HONEST.
He is honest about his feelings for you, he is honest about his intentions, what he wants from you, he is honest about when he sees/wants the relationship to end in marriage. He tells you everything
He is honest to you about his finances, his career, his life, his family etc.
He is trust worthy, transparent in all his dealings, he never lies just to impress because it is not his nature.
He has Integrity you can see, he doesn't make promises he cannot keep, he keeps 90% of his promises.
3) HE RESPECTS YOU
He doesn't treat you with contempt or disregard, the way he talks to you, with so much care and love, like a friend, not a boss.
He treats you like a princess, respects your wishes, your privacy and personal space, he doesn't cross certain boundaries because he respects you and your body.
He doesn't flirt with ladies or cheat on you because he respects you, your feelings and the relationship.
He extends the respect he has for you to your friends, guardians and family, the way he talks about them and talks to them is respectful.
4) HE MAKES EFFORT
He makes effort to keep any Promises he makes to you, if he tells you he will at a place by 6pm, he makes effort to be there
He makes efforts to please you, he's always doing things just to make you happy, even if he is inconvenienced in the process, like staying up all night to talk to you when you want his attention.
He makes effort to stay in touch with you, no matter how busy his schedule, no matter how busy he is, he'll make out time to stay in touch, call you, visit you, hang out with you regularly.
He makes effort, changes his routines, his lifestyle, his habits, his dressing, just to make you happy.
5) HE LISTENS
He asks for your opinions, because he treasures them, because he has great regard for not just your body, but you mind.
He consults you before he takes decisions, and considers what you say and seeks to implement them.
He takes corrections from you happily and with humility and adjusts accordingly.
6) HE TREATS YOU WITH LOVE
He loves you, and you see it in his eyes, you hear it in his words, and you feel it from his actions.
He texts, calls, visits, holds you lovingly, buys you gifts for no reason, and plans for the future with you. He doesn't use you to joke because you mean the world to him.
7) HE SUPPORTS YOU
He supports you in anything you wish to do, he is your number one fan and cheerleader, he supports your everyday hustle, your dreams and passions, financially and otherwise.
He supports you in your business with ideas, encouragement, prayers, he is always there for you when you need him, he's a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear when you Wan to rant, and a friend to you.
8) He's after your soul, not your body.
He wants to marry you, has said so and is willing to wait till marriage for sex.
