Holicent
VIP Contributor
The first step in building resilience is to identify the obstacles that stand in your way. The next step is to figure out how you can overcome each obstacle, and finally, how you can build resilience as a result of overcoming those obstacles.
To do this, ask yourself some questions:
What are the things I can control? How can I take action on those things?
What are the things that are out of my control? What can I do to minimize the impact of these events or circumstances?
How do I feel about this situation? Is it something that fills me with joy or despair? If so, why am I feeling that way? Shouldn't I be feeling something else instead?
What's the worst thing that could happen if something doesn't go well today? How likely is it that something bad will happen anyway?
You can feel like you're not doing anything right, or that you're just not good enough in the eyes of others. But if you take the time to identify and overcome those obstacles, you'll be able to build resilience and success.
To do this, ask yourself some questions:
What are the things I can control? How can I take action on those things?
What are the things that are out of my control? What can I do to minimize the impact of these events or circumstances?
How do I feel about this situation? Is it something that fills me with joy or despair? If so, why am I feeling that way? Shouldn't I be feeling something else instead?
What's the worst thing that could happen if something doesn't go well today? How likely is it that something bad will happen anyway?
You can feel like you're not doing anything right, or that you're just not good enough in the eyes of others. But if you take the time to identify and overcome those obstacles, you'll be able to build resilience and success.