Is there anything called 'true love' without money?

Akanbi Gbenga

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In a world where everything and everyone is measured from a materialistic point, even issue as sensitive as love and marriage is usually coloured by this material sentiment.
A lady wants to marry a man that has prospects, financially in other to give her some social or financial standing. The same goes men who desires a lady's hand in marriage not necessarily because he loves her, but because she has a good job or comes from a wealthy family. This accounts for the ever increasing rate of divorce in marriages today.
 

anil02

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I think we have not feeling for some one than it is fair to marry. Base of marry must be love and faith. But it also truth of life that no one can feed them with love. So money is also important. And in these day it is some more important most of girls want that her groom must be well setlled and earning also decent one and I think nothing wrong in it. But with earning both boy and girls also consider other likes and dislikes
 

anil02

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A man can more fully express his love for a woman if he also provides for her. But true love can exist when neither partner has a penny to their name.
I am agree with you that true love is not depends of money But it is old philosophy. In these day life is not possible with out money. So every girl wants that her would be must have enough earning to feed her. But it is not in cast of boy, A boy can love any girl who have not money but if he wants to marry than he must have enough earning to spend life
 

HeavLeighGill

Active member
Not always. My husband and I were broke the first couple of years we were together. I remember counting change for gas and crying when I was pregnant because I couldn't afford to get anything to eat from the dollar menu. There's something romantic about coming from nothing together and making it to the top. Now we have everything we could ever need, our own home, new nice cars, etc. I loved him back then when he didn't have anything, even though I could've gone out and found someone with a lot of money to take me on vacations and be fancy. Money doesn't matter at the end of the day, yet so many people make it their main focus in life.
 

Oluwasegun purpose

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am so happy for this question... Now the answer to that question is . .

There is no true love without money because now are days no girls will want to follow you if you don't have money , so if a girl is following you or want to marry because you are rich my brother the girl did not love all she is after is your money if you don't have the money again I bet You that girl will surely leave you all she is is your money then nothing else which didn't have any love for you is your money she love...

But let me still tell you that there is still true love but it is very hard to see most time I which to have some one like my parents who love there self , but not because of money they start from starch and become who they are today ....

So there is true love but it is very hard to find if all the girls or boys in the world are 100% only 10% can still love you the Way you are...
 

anil02

Verified member
am so happy for this question... Now the answer to that question is . .

There is no true love without money because now are days no girls will want to follow you if you don't have money , so if a girl is following you or want to marry because you are rich my brother the girl did not love all she is after is your money if you don't have the money again I bet You that girl will surely leave you all she is is your money then nothing else which didn't have any love for you is your money she love...

But let me still tell you that there is still true love but it is very hard to see most time I which to have some one like my parents who love there self , but not because of money they start from starch and become who they are today ....

So there is true love but it is very hard to find if all the girls or boys in the world are 100% only 10% can still love you the Way you are...
Conditional love is not love at all it is an agreement. Love means accept each other with qualities and short comings. Love wants dedication without any conditions. But in these days it is old thinking. Peoples are more practical. But you are right that if some one marry with others only for money than it is not true marry. But it also right that a girl who are marrying with some have enough earning to spend life.
 

gregariouszebra22

New member
True love is not dependent on money. Love is meant to be unconditional. I have seen even the homeless find true love. You can be working class, living paycheck to paycheck, riding the bus, not earning much more than minimum wage, and find love. I know that I found love with my boyfriend and we are both struggling financially. We met working at a previous job together barely making it. I lived with family and he was renting a room. We don't have much but we have love. True love doesn't care about your income or your job or what you have. It's about feelings and people. True love existed before money and material things ever did.
 

anil02

Verified member
Congratulation that you find true love. You both are living separate and both have not financial responsibility for each other. But if in future you will marry with your boyfriends that I think you must be want to assured that both of you have earning to meet every day expenses.
 

Carpon

Valued Contributor
There is true love without money and I think the truest and most genuine love is experienced in the absence of money. Money can attract someone to another person easily but lack of money never does that. There are people who genuinely love despite your money but such kind of love is better pointed out when money is not present. If you have money, you will have a lot of fake and so called lovers but as a broke and poor fellow, any love you receive will be genuine and from the heart.

Love does not necessarily mean the affection that exists between two romantic partners, but it entails all the care and attention you receive from friends and loved ones.
Only a true friend will stick to you without putting your wealth and material possessions in focus.

So to answer your question, I will say that the most genuine kind of love is seen in the absence of money.
 

Finger Geek

Verified member
There is true love without money. But there are times that the true love without money will start to fade off later when there is still no money. Money is the begining of joy. I know that money can not buy joy. But if a person has money today, before he even know what he will do with the money, he will be happy. So that is why I said that money is the begining of joy.

In a relationship that there is no money, the relationship might last long but the love will reduce. The guy might not have money. If the lady has a good business or job, there is still money and the lady will not be able to think of other thing. But if both the guy and the lady has no money, the lady will get tired one day and leave the relationship. It is not that he did not love the guy because of no money but suffering is not something that can be endured in a relationship.
 

Etini

Valued Contributor
Let me say the very truth. Our world of today is very fierce. The priority for everyone now is survival. People now weigh their decisions against the probability of it enhancing their survival. Love is not an exception to this reality.

Honestly, love has turned materialistic today. There is nothing we can do about it. It is the primal instinct of humans to survive. Even family loge tilts towards the person who has substance. Truly, love can't do without money.
 

Heartstrings

Active member
Yes, there is true love without money, true love doesn't necessarily have to involve money and the last time I checked, love supposed to be unconditional. We all know most girls are under these category of love when the money is there,a girl who loves you because you have money didn't love you genuinely.

There is nothing like can love put food on the table? Or can love cloth me? What is wrong in striving with your man? Same thing goes to the men, because I can see comments mostly centred on the ladies.

Some men pretend to love a woman who is rich,they don't truly love her,some of those guys have other women out there whom they truly love,so it goes both ways. When you love someone prove it with genuine actions not just with words. In the real sense,true love supposed to have nothing to do with worldly materials. Everything has consequence afterall.
 
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