Disadvantages of divorce to the health

[Phabbyfundz]

The post traumas and ore trauma of individuals who are going through a divorce are so injurious to the health that if the problems of constant divorce among couples are not checked it can lead to high fatality rate. Divorce has been known to be one of the reasons for depression even suicide amongst us today.
Children from broken homes or children to divorced parents are not left out of this trauma , this lead to all forms juvenile delinquency, and some of this kids even tend to a life of drug leading to an untimely loss of life, mental illness or disorders even low academical performance.
To the risk of traumas associated with divorce, all intended couple before walking down the aisle should first be sure about their decisions are you both actually compatible .

 

[Deleted member 51169]

Sometimes it is not all about knowing whether you are compatible or not before marriage. You may be compatible before walking down the aisle and later in the journey, who knows 10 or 25 years irreconcilable matters arises which even leads to divorce.

Divorce is not prone to young couples only. Take for instance Mr and Mrs Gates, two individuals who have conquered the world in virtually all the field they were involved, parted ways this year with less drama.

One thing couples should always not fell short of, is growing or maturing emotionally. Most times trivial things are the causes of divorce. So whether young or old our motor in marriage should be growing into maturity in emotions till the end of life.

 

[btaliat]

Seeing children from broken homes truly break my heart. I always see this ad the cause of underdevelopment in our society. There may not be proper care of children if they are handled by just one person. They are a times malnutrished or at times maltreated by step mothers in some cases.

 

[Putta Vince]

This article is very true and it has happened with many of the children whose parents got divorced. They are usually grown up in relative's house where they don't get the same love as they were supposed to get from their parents , which leads to depression in children and finally they start doing illegal activities such as buying and selling of illegal goods and so on.

 

[btaliat]

There is no way the health of those children won't be affected. Psychologically, children in such situation will be traumatized seeing their colleagues with their parents in school but they can not boast of the same. They may even feel less of themselves. That's why couples should do their best to be united to save their children future

 

[Alexandoy]

It depends on the spouse who liked the divorce although I'm sure both spouses would have a trauma no matter how slight. But the most impact would be on the spouse who opposed the divorce and usually that is the wife. Mental health is an issue of divorced couples that they even quarrel on the custody of the children not because they want the children but just to spite the other party.

 

[Sotherefore]

Nice one. Choosing the right partner is what I believe is the only effective way you can avoid a divorce, sometimes two people separating may not have any serious effects on them but it might actually have effect on the children that they have raise. Divorce can have psychological effects on the mind of the children